For those of us who know our exes are watching on MN....

(12 Posts)
Hideitinmytummy Sat 19-Apr-14 02:43:38

Whether it is via their new crackpot girlfriends/OW/or just their very own sorry arses.

What would you all like them to know?

I would like them to know that I know it won't last and I don't give a fart's arse, I just want to be left alone without their stupid immature games. It's like having a pair of kids trailing after me at the supermarket trying to see who can piss me off the most. Grow the fuck up!

I mean who still stalks the ex or the ex's ex? Get a fricken' grip!

nomoretether Sat 19-Apr-14 09:03:24

"I know it hurts but please, please, just put the children first. You're not hurting me, you're not hurting him, you're confusing and scaring your own children. I know you don't mean to, I know you're probably not even aware of the damage you're doing because they've started to learn to say one thing to you and another thing to him but please, just stop."

Cupid5tunt Sat 19-Apr-14 09:22:19

T'was quite amusing, I got recognised recently and then my ex started telling people I was writing lies over MN. Wish I'd been there when he said it to my friend in front of the entire pub and her response was "If it was all lies please do explain how on earth she would have been recognised on an anonymous forum by one of YOUR friends who she has never spoken too" grin

I NC'd (still missing my old name sad

Hideitinmytummy Sat 19-Apr-14 09:35:59

Quite Cupid
I suppose we should be flattered that they spend so much time trying to figure out what we are up to. New g.f's must be really dull!
It's amazing how they don't realise it works both ways though.

It also shows how easy it is for the men to give up on their kids the second a bit of skirt tells them to (because it threatens their relationship with said man) and then the man has an excuse to turn his back on his own blood. Aren't they lovely specimens?

Hideitinmytummy Sat 19-Apr-14 09:37:12

And I am quite aware I have kept this couple going from strength to strength as I have been something they can unite against. They are now trying to sell it on the world of FB as 'true love'.
Morons!

McIngOutTheEasterBunny Sat 19-Apr-14 09:47:06

Your children will all hate you in the future. You deserve everything you get. Child maintenance are on my side, not yours. Wait till the bill drops through your door. We all hate you, you are a pathetic little boy. Your daughter is wonderful. No contact since she was 5 months?? I hope you walk under a bus. Would save me the agony of looking in her eyes and explaining how you left her.

Do not bring anymore children in to this world that you can't support or provide for. You've done this to four now. Grow up and grow a pair.

Thislife Sat 19-Apr-14 09:52:08

And don't take on someone else's children when you can't support your own.

Thislife Sat 19-Apr-14 09:52:27

Or choose not to support your own.

Hideitinmytummy Sat 19-Apr-14 09:53:57

Do they not realise that when they give the CSA the run-around they get an extra charge? That comes out of your pocket you idiot, not mine. I hope it's worth giving it to the CSA for their extra work and not your own flesh and blood hmm

McIngOutTheEasterBunny Sat 19-Apr-14 10:01:06

They sent me a letter with what they had worked out he was lawfully in arrears. Did I want to write it off? Erm....nope!

Significant amount. Serves his pathetic are right.

Hideitinmytummy Sat 19-Apr-14 10:17:36

The system changes soon and apparently CSA get more powers over the 90% of cases where the man is hiding earnings.
I am confident he has paid out more in expert advice, time and selling his soul as well as his companies (tax avoidance) just to avoid giving DD any £, to be both morally and literally in the shite within 2 years time.
Karma is a sweet one at times.
As a single parent of a near 3 yo, I built myself a perfect house from scratch to get away from you and the fear you could turn up when you want, so stick that in your 'you'll never do anything with your life' mantra for me and smoke it. Far better than being paid by a sorry excuse for a man to ply with guns and pose for a pic with a machine gun <pffft>

Hideitinmytummy Sat 19-Apr-14 10:39:29

Oh and also there are many many things she has inherited from you, but I won't tell you about them like this. If you wanted to know you would actually man up and ask, or maybe bother to try to see her.
Remember when you said you hoped every time I looked into her blue eyes I'd think of you? I do, and I pity you and your sad life without your first born in it. I pity your mother, who wanted to know her grandchild. I pity your silly girlfriend who thinks your looks make you a catch must be desperation there as frankly your personality sucks arse, but most of all I pity you. You pretend it is everyone else making you do this, but it's your own decision and you aren't man enough to admit that.

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