I'm not sure whether I've made the wrong decision here or not & would welcome some advice.
I split with exH 2 years ago. Divorce currently going through.
We have 3 boys aged 3, 6 & 7. When we first split I was working 3 days a week & exH full time & we shared the not insignificant costs of childcare.
Just over a year ago, I stopped working & was claiming benefits as a lone parent. ExH was paying me no maintenance as he was subsidising mortgage on marital home.
We have now sold the house, with enough equity to settle debts only. I've moved in with my partner & have just been offered a full time job where the starting salary is only just enough to cover childcare costs. Am taking the job in the hope earnings will increase as childcare costs decrease.
Have agreed with exH that he will pay me £250 per month maintenance now house is sold. CSA website suggests £320 ish based on contact but as I moved a fair distance away. I agreed on £250 a month with ex to take into account his travelling expenses to see the kids.
However, I'm wondering whether I ought to be asking for more money from exH to cover some of the childcare costs given he also works full time.
Any thoughts?
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Mrsmindcontrol · 14/11/2013 12:22
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