I have 3 kids from previous relationship. They all have my surname. I am 24 weeks pregnant and the father walked out 6 weeks ago. When we were together I promised he could be at the birth and baby have his surname. Obv assuming one day we would marry etc.
Now he's left and I am trying to rebuild myself. I am still angry and hurt and don't want to make decisions based on my resentment.
But is it wrong of me to now change my mind on these issues and for the baby to have my surname and him not present at the birth. He's not civil with me. The last I heard from him he wanted a DNA test and said he hated me.
Ideally I want his name on birth certificate as don't want it blank for baby when older whether he sticks around or not but just wanted people's opinions on surname and the birth. Thanks
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Eternity84 · 02/11/2013 16:37
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