After 6 years of allowing xp to turn up to see DS when he feels like it, and fail to turn up without explanation when he doesn't, I've finally got tough. Told him that unless I get a month's notice in advance of his visits, and proper notice if he can't make it (i.e. at least a day) he won't see ds. I haven't restricted the amount of time he can spend with ds (as often as he likes) but I just need to know in good time when it's going to be.
XP seems to think this is an "impossible" demand. What do you wise mumsnetters think? I'd really appreciate some support - have no-one else to talk to about it really.
What prompted my action was last Sunday when xp told ds he was coming on Sunday. Sunday came and went with no sign of xp, no response on his mobile and no explanation. He then e-mailed me on Thursday to ask if he could see ds on Saturday - no apology, still no explanation. I saw red! I really can't understand how he can treat any child, least of all his own child, in this way. Not once but many times.
Sorry this has turned into a rant but I'm so angry with him.
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Reasonable contact: I've finally got tough
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Sheila · 19/06/2006 13:29
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