Having such a bad time. :(
Split with DH over 3 years ago. DC (10 & 5) go to his on alternate weekends, and one night a week. He pays NO MONEY at all. Because he's a twat.
I just feel I'm failing everything. Oldest DS is having behavioural problems at school and they're sending some people round to the house (sometime over the summer holidays) to help us. Which will be good, but I feel like they're judging me. (I know they're not!)
Youngest DS was falling asleep in school so the teacher suggested I took him to the doctor. Blood test revealed he's almost anaemic so he's on iron medicine. I had NO IDEA he was that poorly - I feel I should have noticed.
ExDH bangs on about having the kids 45% of the time, but it's me who does the doctors, school stuff, play dates, clothes, homework, everything. EVERYTHING.
And so it's me who's failing when DS1 is horribly behaved; aggressive and rude to his brother, sulky and selfish with me, just a total pain to be around. I'm awful with him, I have no patience and he just pisses me off. :( I know how awful that is to say.
Does he have a problem..? He won't start his schoolwork without a battle, he has a terrible memory, he fidgets and makes odd noises a lot. He doesn't know how to play by himself, so just interferes with what his brother's doing, then turns it into a weird game that ends in tears. He has one friend at school.
Youngest cries at the drop of a hat and whines. He's adorable most of the time but copies his brother's naughtiness.
All I want for them is to grow up into happy, popular, helpful, fulfilled adults but I have NO IDEA how to do that.
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AnuvvaMuvva · 09/07/2013 18:24
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