I don't know what to think or do. Dh told me last night he isn't sure if he can continue as we are, he thinks its best we separate. We've been together 20 yrs and have two dc. He has told me he's gay, hence the possible split. We still get on well and I hoped we could still make it work. I have no idea what we do next, how do we sort out the finances? How do we tell the dc? How will I cope? Can I even afford to be alone?