Ds is 15. After some issues with ex literally not turning up at pre arranged places and times a few months back and him persuading ds that i am the unreasonable one. I took the decision to get ds and ex to sort out contact between them and for me to back off. So, ds has not seen his dad since beginning of February, partly I should point out to ds having school activities on Saturday and ex telling me (not ds) its not worth seeing him from Saturday lunchtime til Sunday night.
I got ds to text his dad today and ask about contact this weekend.
Ex has text back and not agreed to contact but just asked if I could travel 50 miles on Friday night and meet him at a town (where I presume he is working this week).
Ex moved from our old marital home after insisting he kept it when we split which is 2 mins away from where ds and i currently live. He now lives with his current partner about 80 miles away. Traditionally he has always picked ds up from my house but he is now asking me to meet him at various places and given his track record for always being a minimum of 30 mins late (sometimes never turning up at all). I feel loathed to agree to this.
Ex WILL use my saying "no" as Justification for stopping contact. He is very clever and always tries to turn things around so that its my decision that "stops" him coming.
I should also point out that we've been apart for 11 yrs and for 8 yrs I didn't get a penny in maintenance and now only get enough to pay for ds lunch. (He's self employed). So why should I pay out 100 miles of fuel?
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theredhen · 17/04/2013 18:35
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