hi, i know there are many in far worse scenarios but im finding things really difficult at the minute. have a 15 month dd, and her sleep is awful. she is up late at night, sometimes till 10 or 12 if she falls asleep for a few minutes in the car. if i try to put her down at a reasonable time she just cries and cries. she just doesn't seem tired. she is so hyper at night and im so tired and stressed trying to manage her ... she isn't really that badly behaved, but its just the hyperness, the mess of the house she creates. she refuses to let me change her cos she is bouncing everywhere.
when she finally goes to bed im usually in tears with exhaustion, the house is a mess. then she wakes up a couple of hours later - i tried sleep training months ago, but im too tired to go through with it again and its easier bringing her into my bed and this is what she is used to now. it worked for awhile, but now she is waking up so many times a night, i end up having to hold her most of the night and eventually we will both sleep.
most of my friends children aren't like her... they are more placid, she is so lively and i wouldn't change anything about her she is amazing, but i feel so tired and feel its such hard work. does anyone have any suggestions about how to cope? i do get help, and i still feel like this. i have a sleep mist i use for us, i put lavender oil in the bath.
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jan2013 · 02/01/2013 14:28
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