Title says it all really. Absolutely don't mind being apart from increasingly EA ex and in new relationship with lovely man. But struggling with the sheer relentlessness of dealing with 3 DCs (DS1 (15), DD (12) DS2 (8)). Three years on and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. I spend most of my time ferrying children back and forth and supervising homework, music practice, reading etc (most of which their dad doesn't do). Feeling increasingly resentful and bored.
Have made the effort to find things to do for me, and my life away from DCs is mostly pretty good - work is tedious and boss a bit of a challenge so it's not a case of grass being greener.
It's around the DCs that I am struggling with the sheer effort of it all. There is little joy or fun in our family and, having tried to change things, I'm running out of ideas, energy and inclination. I can't see anything positive at all in parenting alone and I hate dealing with all the decisions and discipline on my own. I hate the feeling that I have no-one to share anything with - it's not just the harder, negative things. I miss sharing the brilliant presents I've found for them for Christmas too.
Every little thing that goes wrong just serves to highlight just how much I hate being a single parent.
I know I have to find a different way to see the situation. Any suggestions?
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secretskillrelationships · 12/10/2012 00:17
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