Well, Tuesday's date (from Match.com - first in 6 months) was really nice. I liked him and he liked me....but.....his children were grown up and mine are still at school and he, understandably, wants to be able to be 'spontaneous', disappear to Paris, out for a meal, trekking in the Himalayas etc at the drop of a hat. Deep, deep sigh.
Men my age usually have grown up children and men younger often (I've found) want someone to have children with. It seems a no-win-situation.
I'm 50 with three young children (6,8 and 11) who I love dearly but there has to more to life, doesn't there? I get every other weekend and every Tuesday evening 'off' when they go to their Dad's.
Anyone else out there struggling with being lonely? Everywhere I look, all my friends (even the three 'single sisters' I started out with 2 years ago) are loved up. These friends are fatter, thinner, older, younger, shorter and taller than me - so what's wrong with me?! Weekends without the children are worst, I end up not even speaking to anyone for the whole two days. Money is a bit tight so venturing out isn't really an option. I end up feeling really sorry for myself and drinking too much!
I'm slim-ish, bright-ish and good company but I'm starting to feel invisible, not good enough and I've lost my confidence. :(
Anyone else feeling the same?
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EiePie · 11/10/2012 08:06
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