DD's dad still lives in the same area (same house with new partner and her 2 kids) as he did when we were together. Our split was amicable and there have been arguments but we're both good at keeping dd as the priority. I moved about 20 miles from there to be nearer work. Then dd started a new school and she's been very unhappy there. I don't like the teacher very much following parent's evening last week (that's a whole other post) and dd is very sad.
DD was on the phone to her dad tonight and said she wanted to go to the same school as her stepbrothers. Their school has a good ofsted report and the boys settled in there last year quite well. Obviously ex-dp is delighted with the idea because dd would be closer if we did it. DD would have her step brothers around who she loves. Ex-dp's partner does not work so is around to do the school run as I would then have to resume commuting to work.
I am seriously thinking this could be good for dd. I have no family here and her grandparents are there along with her dad etc. Childcare worries would be lessened though I'd have to see more of them and vice versa. I will say that I dread living out of the city again because everything is here but if it's better for dd, I should consider it, right?
We lived in rented and could move with 2 month's notice. Rents are cheaper over there but other costs will rise. Does anyone think I'm crazy for considering this? The thought that keeps going through my mind is that this is what is best for dd and surely that comes before the fact that my social life will crumble as all my friends are over here.
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Amanda1 · 14/03/2006 20:18
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