Has anyone ever known of supervised contact having to be stopped?
To cut a long story wrong there was DV inflicted on me and my boys aged 5 yeras and 4 years we fled to refuge, there was a fact finding the father got away with everything - even though there was plenty of evidence, police reports his criminal record for violence he even lost his temper in court thumping table and swearing but the judges did not recognise what a horrible violent man he is and ordered supervised contact.
He never paid any attention to our boys he said he never wanted children, he is on;ly doing this to get back at me.
My eldest boy age 5 refuses to see his dad as he inflicted the vioplence on all of us - there is a child psychiatrist involved to support us. I'm not one of those lying women who create parent alienation just to be mean to the ex. I'm very hurt and have no faith in the British Law sysem at all I hate women that lie as it messes things up for the real cases like me and my kids - I have been painted with the same brush as these liars. All I want to do is protect my children.
My question is if the supervised contact stresses my children out too much will I be forced to force them to see their dad?
Cafcass ensured me that if the children stress out too much it will be stopped but we will try again.
Do any of you have the same experiences as me? how did it work out for you and your children?
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mumyumi · 07/11/2011 11:45
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