Didn't know where to post this.
Seperated with partner about a month ago - reasons: he is controlling, terrible temper eg smashing things, pushing me etc. Complete lack of respect for me and I feel unable to trust him.
Anyway, when we first seperated people told me that he might 'try to get at me thru the kids'. I was shocked and said he would never do that. The other day (when he came back unninvited) he told eldest that he wants to come home but mummy won't let him.
Since this, behaviour from eldest has been bad, I know she is upset but I don't know what to do. We have had chats about the situation but I feel so bad for her.
He meanwhile deperatley wants us to get back together, but he still seems to have no REAL concept of my feelings towards him and my reasons for asking him to go.
Life is such a mess at the moment. Have been advised to see a solicitor about where I stand.
Don't know what I expect anyone to post in reply, just feels good getting everything down on paper so to speak.
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Panic · 31/12/2005 13:20
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