H and I are breaking up. He had said that he would leave the house and the girls and I could stay until we have found somewhere else, but he spent the weekend shut in the bedroom saying he wouldn't go anywhere and that we have to leave.
He acted like this because I said I would prefer to be here when he sees the girls initially, given the reason we are breaking up now. His reaction was to go back on his agreement that we could stay here.
My name isn't on the mortgage, purely because we got a deal on our mortgage, which had a lower age limit and I was too young at the time we took the mortgage out to be included.
I've booked a solicitors appointment, although he's acting 'normally' again now, his behaviour over the weekend made me realise how precarious our verbal agreements now are.
I don't really know where to start though, when I go to see the solicitor. How much of the reasons behind the current situation do they tend to want to know and what should I be requesting from her?
I think H will change his mind again regarding the house, I wont rent around here so if we leave it will mean moving about five hours away, by car.
Any advice appreciated!
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BadgerBadger · 30/08/2005 11:28
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