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If you have any spare time during the day (an hour or two a week) Peabody's 'Well Met' is a befriending scheme which aims to introduce volunteer befrienders to older people in the borough of Wandsworth. Any little bit helps and we'll try to match you up with someone local. If you're interested please contact email@example.com.