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There is a play group called The Butterfly club which runs in Wesley Hall (behind Loughton Methodist CHurch).The church should have an idea of when it runs- I think it might be Monday afternoons. You could also come along to the Baby Sensory classes I run there on Tuesday afternoons- you are welcome to join us for a free taster session to see if you enjoy it!