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Hello PurpleChocolateShark, I can't offer you any suggestions i'm afraid as I haven't used nurseries in Oxford, but your post prompted me to check the Childcare section of Mumsnet Oxford and I see that this section hasn't been populated automatically. There must have been a technical glitch. Will find out about this and get back to you.