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Aah, it would be so good to be able to chat to someone near my own age (youthful 43 year old), who is a first time parent. Seen a bit of life, got piles of t-shirts? Maybe this is not your first baby, but you have a big gap between the last and everything feels different this time around. Mums are supposed to be getting older, so where are the groups for us? Meet informally at the baby cafe for a cuppa?