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I'll post a sensible meet-up suggestion now in case any Dudley mummies out there thought I was taking the mick (I wasn't, I was just being daft to get the ball rolling but now I feel very silly because I obviously sounded so obnoxious that no-one wanted to meet up with me!!!)
How about a coffee at the cafe at A&D Aquatics, Oldbury? There are plenty of high chairs, clean changing facilties etc and children of all ages seem to like looking at all the marine fish and seahorses afterwards.