..or is it just mine?!
I come from a very large family that all live in and around the same town. I left to go to university and have never gone back, other than for visits.
All my relatives have children and are pretty involved in each others lives, with lots of parties for birthdays etc, which I rarely go to as it costs so much. Also, whenever I go back all my DH and I are asked is when we're going to have a baby - it used to drive me crazy now it just upsets me. We are hoping to have a baby next year but we've set up two businesses and have other things to do than just have a baby!
I never want to be rude about their live choices, but somehow mine seem fair game.
I am always getting digs about not visiting enough, but I don't even get a birthday card from any of these relatives, so I don't see why I should feel guilty for not going to a party which will cost us lots of money we don't have and come away feeling awful.
Long way of asking...do you get the guilt-trip about moving/not coming back to your family enough after moving overseas?
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googietheegg · 03/01/2010 14:21
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