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DH just ben offered job in Perth! Am in shock...........

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mrsdelboy · 05/11/2007 14:23

DH has been going on about moving from this country for ages. He went to an Australian exbo(?) yesterday and got an interview for today. Has just come out of the interview and called me to say that he has got the job!!!!!

What is Perth like?

We have a dd who is 5 in January and has just started reception and a ds who is 2 in feb and due to start pre-school after Easter. What happens in Australia with schooling? Do they start at the same age as over here?

Am in total shock and have a million questions. I am not sure how i feel at the moment. Sad about leaving family and excited at the prospects. What does anyone else think?

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sandcastles · 05/11/2007 14:27

I can't answer the Q's for Perth, but will make sure this gets bumped for the Perth lot in the morning.

Is the middle of the night here so they will (should) all be in bed....

I should be too, but that's what you get when you let dh have the PC!

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Frizbe · 05/11/2007 14:29

oooh bump for Astro, will pop a message on another thread to get her over here!

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PestoPyromaniacMonster · 05/11/2007 14:29

Perth is a beautiful city with nice beaches, but it is miles from anywhere. I loved it when I travelled round Australia many moons ago, but I don't know what it would be like to actually live there. Maybe Suzywong will be around later to advise.

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Astrophe · 05/11/2007 14:43

I'm an Easterner too sorry, but I have family who live in Perth with small children and just adore it. Its a good size city, but small enough to have a 'Big town' feeling, they say. I've heard its beautiful, with stunning beaches, and people there have a good lifestyle.

Re schooling, not sure in WA, but in NSW kids must turn 5 before April in their first year of school (school year is Feb-December). As I said, its probably different in WA, but generally speaking Australian schools stat later than UK schools, and (again, generally) of a good standard, and would accept your DC as a matter of course - don't think its hard to get into state schools.

HTH...will look you out some links...

Oh, and PS...GO FOR IT!!!

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sandcastles · 05/11/2007 14:50

Start here and have a look around.

Perth

Perth dept of Education

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Astrophe · 05/11/2007 14:50

Dept of education WA

this talks about school starting age in WA - seems even later than NSW

Kids in Perth paper

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Astrophe · 05/11/2007 14:51

beat me sandcastles

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Tortington · 05/11/2007 14:51

i am soooooooooooooo jealous. congratulations

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sandcastles · 05/11/2007 14:52

Opps, sorry Astrophe...

Good Luck mrsdelboy, it is very exciting!

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stepfordwife · 05/11/2007 14:53

my in-laws are in perth and it's a fab city. but, yep, WA is sooooo far away. but loads to explore and just a 5-hour flight from singapore
good luck!

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sophierosie · 05/11/2007 14:54

I've only ever heard good things about people moving to Perth, in fact about 25% of my old school friends have now emigrated to Perth and absolutely love it!

I'm tempted to join them, in fact DH's job is on the wanted list and we would be fast tracked through immigration - hmmmm thinks about having the Indian Ocean on my doorstep!

Go for it! Sounds v exciting - I'm sure his new employers will have people to help you move etc.

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mrsdelboy · 05/11/2007 17:44

Thanks for all your messages and providing the links.

To some extent you have calmed me down. I had started to really panic. DH is desparate to go but i am not sure how i feel.

At the moment i don't live near my family but they are only an hour and a half away if needed. We have only lived in Kent for 2.5 years but i have made some really good friends and i am just worried that i will be lonely .

Some of your posts have definitely reassured me and i can see that it would be a great opportunity. But i am still really unsure. When I went to pick dd up from school and was telling my friends i almost started to cry....what a baby!!!!

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sunnydelight · 06/11/2007 06:49

Are you thinking of it as a permanent move, or just a couple of years? TBH you really have nothing to lose by having an adventure - if you don't like it you don't have to stay forever.

We (family of 5 with kids aged 14, 8 and 4) have just moved from the South of England to Sydney and we're loving it. We are viewing it as a permanent move though, we've sold up in the UK and have put our eldest back a year in school so he can best integrate into the Aussie high school system, so it would be very difficult to go back within the next 5 years.

I do really miss my friends in the UK (and the boozy Brighton mumsnet meet ups }, but as I hadn't lived in the same country as my family for 18 years anyway, it was easier for me in some ways. Have a look at the website www.britishexpats.com for lots of information/advice from people who have already made the move or are going through the process. Australia is a great place to bring up a family.

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Budabang · 06/11/2007 06:54

Rent your house out in UK so you are not burning any bridges (assuming you are not renting already!). Tell yourself you will give it 2 years. Having moved about a lot it really takes over a year to start to feel settled anywhere.

Perth is lovely. We spent a holiday there exactly 9 years ago and loved it.

Well done your DH!

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mrsdelboy · 06/11/2007 10:52

This would be a permanent move sunny delight.

budabahg - I think we would have to sell up. Not sure if the rental would cover our mortgage. Would have to look into it with estate agents.

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NottsMum · 06/11/2007 13:33

I've not been on here for yonks and when I do I can actually help someone! (I'm normally a bit of a lurker).
MrsD - I emigrated to Perth with my family 6 months ago and I can honestly say that we are having a fab time! Perth is ideal for families, so much to see and do (lots of it free), very friendly people, the weather is great (although even we were surprised at the amount it rained during winter). Re your school questions - your eldest would be too young to start school. They have to turn 6 by the 30 June which is the cut off point. So she would go to Pre-Primary.

My eldest DD who had already done a year at school joined Year 1 and although we've had a few tears in the main she loves her new school and is very settled. DD2 turned 3 in Sept and she goes to Daycare here which she loves too.

It took us over a year to get our visa and during that time we got stacks of useful info from www.aussiemove.com particularly the forum.

Anyway, I'm more than happy to answer your questions and help in any way that I can, so fire away. Pls bear in mind that we're now 9 hours ahead of GMT (which is a bit of a bummer when we want to ring back home) so you might get a bit of a delay in me getting back to you. It's bedtime for me now

p.s. writing this I realise that I really do need to change my MN name! Can anyone tell me how I do it? Ta.

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mrsdelboy · 06/11/2007 14:43

Nottsmum, thankyou for taking the time to reply. It is really good to hear from people who have emigrated and their views.

I am also mainly a lurker on mumsnet. I usually just enjoy reading what people are posting but i am now finding it really usefull

Thanks for offering to answer any questions, so here goes for a start.....

DS due to start pre-school soon after he is 2. Would go a couple of sessions a week for 2.5 hours. Do they have this sort of thing in Perth?

Are there playgroups that i can attend with ds to get out and meet people?

Are there better areas of Perth to move to if you have a family? If so what ones?

Selfishly my main concern is that I will be lonely. I am sure that the dc's will settle fine. In your experience are the locals welcoming?

Not sure how long it will be before it all starts happening but apparently DH was told at the job interview that we will be able to use a relocator to help us move and sort everything out . So hopefully it will make it a bit easier (she says crossing her fingers).

In answer to your question about changing your name, I think you have to go into Mymumsnet and login. Then you can go into registration details and change it in there. However not 100% sure, so others may know better than me!

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NottsMum · 07/11/2007 14:15

Hi

Sorry first chance I've had to take a look at MN today.

So, re pre-school. They call it Kindy here. I only found out at the weekend that they have "3 year old kindy". Again the rule is the child needs to be 3 by 30 June but that is all I know. The web sites someone else on this thread will give you more answers as does this page on aussiemove.com.

There are loads of playgroups around so that bits easy. Some do a "gold coin" donation, ie, $1 or $2 and some like mine you have to pay an annual subscription. It's tiny compared to the one I went to in the UK but the women there have been very welcoming.

In terms of feeling lonely, well, unless you shut yourself away you'll find that people are really incredibly friendly and as soon as you tell them you've just emigrated they'll go out of their way to help you anyway they can.

Basically, I've arrived and just "mucked in". As well as playgroup I take my youngest to a music group and as I mentioned before she goes to nursery 2 days a week.

My other DD goes to Guides (she's even been on a camp for 4 days!) and does a sport after school one day a week.

Both of them go to swimming lessons which we enrolled them in straight away. (TBH this is pretty much a must given the beach / swimming pool lifestyle here)

There is stacks to do here. A fab website I subscribe to is www.enjoyperth.net. I was surprised how much goes on as Perth is a small city but you really can't be bored. We've done so much and not been / seen / travelled to soooo much more.

Perth has hit boom time, big time. It is Australia's fastest growing city so there are jobs galore whether you're looking for full or part-time. It also means that new estates are going up at a fast rate of knots but some are a long, long way out of the city and the newer ones also need time to build up a community feel, so are pretty lifeless (in my opinion). The houses in these new estates can be fabulous new modern homes but if there's nothing to see or do around you and it's a long way to get to places then you need to way that up against having a spanking new home.

Saying that, their are modern homes all over the place. It is totally normal for people to bulldoze the original house, divide up the plot and build modern new homes where one once stood. You'll also see that with newer homes they are increasingly built to almost fill the plot with very little in the way of garden (or backyard as they call it here!) We bought a 4 year old house on a split plot but were lucky enough to have a fairly decent size garden (just not the pool that DH wanted!)

In terms of areas to live, well to be honest it depends on what you want. We've seen that question asked lots of times on Aussiemove and everyone has their own opinion. You'll need to think about whether you want to live near the river or near the beach. It does make a difference. The foreshore on the Swan River is beautiful, landscaped really well with playgrounds and cafes at convenient spots and lots goes on there too.

We've not spent much time at the beach yet as winter was upon us more or less when we arrived but it's not far to get too. What swung it for us was that to live right next to the beach you need pots and pots of cash (who doesn't dream of that wonderful sea view?) and also there's a summer wind called the Fremantle Doctor which can get quite strong on the coast.

You're lucky that you've been offered a relocator, we used a real estate guy (estate agent in the UK!) and he was brilliant. Once we decided if we were going to live north or south of the river he sat down with us and went through all the possible suburbs given our budget, desirable commuting time, schools etc and he made it so much easier.

Have you thought about taking a holiday here before making a decision or is that out of the question? It'll give you a really good feel for the place.

A piece of advice I would give you is to make sure you can spend as much time together exploring as well as doing the necessary bits like open a bank account etc, before your OH starts working. I was lucky and my DH didn't work for the first 10 weeks so we did loads together and had a lot of fun before "normal" life started. 10 weeks is a lot but he came out here without a job and took a break before looking. But to give you an idea of how easy it is to get work, he was offered 5 jobs out of the 6 interviews he had so was able to cherry pick.

Hope that's helped a bit. If you want to know more fire away or send me a message via MN.

I'm off to bed now!

NM

p.s. I've surprised myself as much as anyone about making the move. OH has wanted to come out here for years and I always said I couldn't do it but the last holiday here swung it for me. It's so great for families and I can honestly say that I have not regretted it at all. That doesn't mean to say that it's right for everyone, lots of families return to the UK but we've arrived with a positive attitude and are making the most of this opportunity to change our lives and see a bit more of the world.

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mrsdelboy · 11/11/2007 08:37

Thanks for all the info, it really has been very useful. I am now warming to the idea of moving much to the delight of DH. But we will just have to wait and see what happens now as we are still waiting for written confirmation of his job offer.

I would love to go over to Perth before we take the big leap but not sure if that will be possible. Again just going to have to wait and see!

Thanks again to everyone and all the web links.

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