Hi,
I feel very helpless today, I haven't slept a wink. I moved to my fiance's homeland with the best intention to settle but I can not get used to it. The climate (cold), the differences and the language are being a true obstacle. It was my idea to come here and now I wish we could leave. My fiance doesn't want to leave although he is not entirely fulfilled here. I totally understand he doesn't trust me anymore as I wanted to come here. I can not imagine myself learning the language more, I have had enough of new languages -complete burn out and total fatigue-.
I ponder moving back to the previous country (not my homeland) on my own and get a job there so we can breathe. ...We were planning on having a baby but I can not imagine myself being unhappy and pregnant. The situation is truly damaging us. It's partly my mistake for not doing all the efforts required. I don't bond with people here and this is not helping to make more efforts.
What to do? :(
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Almondmilk · 06/12/2016 05:35
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