Anyone around to advise on how to cope with cultural differences? I'm from the UK but living in Nigeria and wrestling with two issues at the moment.
First is car safety. To me car safety is a no-brainer so I was horrified at the tale dd2 told me on her return from a friend's yesterday. She informed me that 10 adults and children went out in an ordinary estate car and that dd was in the front passenger seat with another girl, with the seat belt around them both. The friend's parents are very, very wealthy, very well-educated and they spend time in the UK so must be aware of the safety issues around overcrowding and lack of seat belts etc. But few people in Nigeria buckle their chidren (or even themselves) up and maybe the parents are just 'going with the flow' of being in their home culture. So how can I tackle the subject with the parents without seeming critical or rude? I don't mind seeming weird or mad, though!
The second issue is with a girl in dd's class at school. The girl is being bullied by another girl, on a long-term basis, and she was very upset to the point of tears when I saw her. But she said she didn't want anyone in authority to be told about it. I feel I should do something, however, I've no idea if bullying as a concept is recognised in Nigeria (although it's an international school) and if I would be making things worse. Their teacher is from New Zealand, which makes me more inclined to tell. What do you think?
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suedonim · 21/01/2007 22:23
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