Hi
DH has an option of heading to Sydney for work with his company next year. We've 3 young kids under 8 and we've been living in The Middle East for the last couple of years so kind of used to being abroad and away from family etc. We enjoy it for the most part, I've travelled a lot since a young age which suits me fine and the kids are thriving being abroad with all that goes with it. We make a big effort to stay in touch with both sides of the family and have made lots of visits since we moved out here, partly due to it not being too far I suppose.
I lived in Oz for a while many moons ago and have many lovely memories of the place. And some not so lovely - all dodgy boyfriend related! I always thought what a fabulous place to grow up it must be and to now have that opportunity for my children seems almost to good to be true.
There are cons to this obviously, grandparents being the main sticking point. We miss them and they miss us (namely the kids obv) and they are my parents only grandkids so they are very much looking forward to us returning next year, as is the current plan....
I'm feeling very confused about what to do. On the one hand I'm pretty sure that Australia would be great for us all but would the guilt of taking the kids even further away from their extended family taint it? Is it really worth it I wonder? Part of me is thinking (rather romantically/unrealistically according to my DH) that we could do a kind of 5 year plan down under? Getting back to the UK for the kids secondary education phase and the little ones would still be little enough for the grandparents to enjoy nice times with....
This brings me on to the following regarding visa's (sorry). I think my husband would be on a 457 visa? So what would me and the kids be on? And when could we become PR? And how long do you have to be PR to gain citizenship? I vaguely remember something about being a PR for 5 years and then you could apply for citizenship. Or if you get PR status does that ever run out so to speak? i.e. Could we come and go with rights to work etc? I guess long term I'm thinking I don't really want to be there forever, I'm very aware of the time that will most likely come when my parents need help from me and also for them to have some decent time with the kids before they get too old. But...I would dearly love to give my kids the option of another country to call home should they wish to get out of the UK when they've grown up. Especially Australia.
Thanks to anyone out there who can reply :)
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farflung · 27/01/2016 06:59
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