Just replied to another post and it got me thinking that maybe I'm just not the ex-pat type
Over 25 years after first leaving 'home' I am now realizing this!!!. Not a slow learner at all
I have come across lots of ex-pats who just seem to slot right in, doing everything and anything to find their place in the cog of that particular posting/ life. Thriving on all the newness, the challenges, brushing themselves off when things go awry and continuing down the ex-pat path.
I, on the other hand struggle on a daily basis. I put on my 'face'. My coping really well and loving every minute of being in this topsy-turvy, never really feeling comfortable world 'face'
I am quite a private person, don't particularly do 'social media' I am very particular who I consider a friend. I 'know' lots of people, but on a 'my children play with your children' kind of friendships.
I think as I age and the children don't need me as much I realize that I just can't be arsed trying any more.
Some people thrive in this environment, constant newness, challenges and change. I did, but don't anymore. It feels as though my mask is slipping and knowing I will be in this bubble for at least another 5/6/7 years doesn't make me want to jump for joy.
Are there ex-pat personality types?
Are you the:
challenge loving, no obstacle too big, fitter-in-er type?
I can do this for a limited amount of time, enjoy it but will always return 'home type?*
Keep hoping the next move will be the place I feel I belong type?
Really enjoyed it for a while but the novelty has worn off type? (Me)
Thought this would be a great adventure, but actually hate it type?
I am sure there are a million other types out there but thought it would be interesting to hear what others think.
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farflungfanny · 24/07/2015 09:18
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