I'm moving to NYC with DH and DD1 2.5yrs and 6 week old DD2. I will be a SAHM for the first time since my short maternity leave with DD1 and am getting a bit nervous, especially as DD1 has not got places in the various playgroups / activities I had registered for .
I love a good routine, and think that having a daily pattern will be the only way I'll cope with the two of them at home . As with DD1, I'm hoping that DD2 will take to a predictable napping pattern with a 7pm bedtime to allow lots of grown up time in the evening.
But chatting to friends who have spent time in NYC (with older children) lots of socialising seems to happen in local parks and shared BBQ areas throughout the day and in the evening, and I'm getting cabin-fever already at the thought of being cooped up in a tiny apartment on the 15th floor during nap times.
Obviously it is impossible to generalise, and every child / family is different, but I'd be really interested to hear what the general attitude towards routines and early bedtimes is in NYC. Does the heat make everyone a bit more laid-back?
And also if anyone has any tips for local casual playgroups on the Upper East Side / Midtown areas - I have found lots of structured 'classes' for toddlers where caregivers are present, but no cheap drop-in groups as are commonplace here in UK?
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Social 'norms' for SAHMs with toddlers in New York City - and recommendations for playgroups!
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dependentspouse · 15/06/2015 22:40
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