Hi fellow expats, we are a family with three children, the eldest is 11 currently in Y6. We have lived in many places in the past few years (US, UK, Singapore). We are French but our kids have done their primary years in the British school system, and we really love it.
Now it looks like my husband might have an opportunity to move to the US (West coast, Bay area) for a job. In the past, we have followed more or less the job opportunities, rather than making a conscious decision of choosing a place to live. It was always a combination of good job and nice location though... we have refused some postings that would have been good career/money wise but not appealing to us. We have really enjoyed all the discoveries, but also found it challenging sometimes (especially finding it hard to keep in touch with friends, being away from the family...).
As our eldest is starting secondary school soon, we are wondering if we should not stop our "wandering years". Yes, San Francisco sounds like an amazing place, but what next? If we stay there 3 years and then decided to move back to the UK, it would mean our son would go back in Year 10 from a different system... Has anyone done it? If we stay longer, then the question will be the same for his siblings... But I cannot say for sure now that I am ready to settle in SF for the next 12 years! (And I cannot imagine myself living in Singapore for that long either...)
How did you know it was time to settle down? Or have you decided to NOT settle down??
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MinusculeAtBest · 04/05/2015 15:53
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