My DF has just been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and given a likely diagnosis of 2-3 months. I live over 6 hours away, have two young DCs (under 5 but one at pre school) and my husband is away for the next few months (partly his choice which I also find very difficult).
I feel so terribly sad and guilty that I can't get to see my dad as much as I want before he dies. I feel torn between my DC ( who are already unsettled with their dad being away and Gf being ill) and seeing my dad. I feel like not seeing my dad will be something I will regret forever but have no way to do it ( my parents can't handle us staying with them and I can't afford to take unpaid leave and rent somewhere ( even if I could find it).
I was just wondering how others who have lived far away from parents have found the best way to deal with this?
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Life-limiting illness
Dad terminal cancer and I live far away
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Dingdingdong · 10/06/2016 20:27
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