Hi my darling mother was diagnosed with bowel cancer yesterday, we don't yet know how serious, waiting for the MRI scan. We are all devastated.
She is 73 and full time carer for my 47 year old brother who suffers from spina bifida and various mental health issues, learning difficulties etc. He is incontinent, has OCD and caring for him is incredibly challenging anyway for my mum - it's a 24 hr job - but even more so now. I want to make sure she has the time and ability to focus on getting better.
I have no idea how I would arrange respite care for my brother, or what the options are on a longer term basis. Can anyone help? FYI my mother has so far refused respite due to 'guilt' but I think I have to step in now she is so ill.
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Life-limiting illness
Mother with cancer and respite for brother
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StripeyWife · 08/06/2016 12:10
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