My kids started new schools a few weeks ago, (we moved after I left their father) my daughter had developed a very intense friend ship with a girl in her class. she came round on Wednesday, she came round on friday, she came round earlier. They want to meet up again tomorrow. initially I was very pleased with this development, she has found making friends hard in the past. and then last night. i happened to be at the top on the stairs when they were saying goodbye and I heard them kiss and then both giggle nervously. Now that i'm on alert there's been other indications too.
I guess I have a number of issues, not all LGBT related. she seems so young (she's 13 so objectively she's not really that young, but she's my eldest child, and i'm a mother -so hey) i'm worried about her jumping headlong into a relationship so soon after such a traumatic life event. I'm worried they're going to break up and fall out horribly and then be stuck in the same class for the next few years. I'm worried their classmates are going to find out and give them a hard time.
i know a lot of this is my head running away with it self, i'm worrying about things that may not even happen but my daughters never had a relationship before (as far as i know) so this feels like a bit of a double whammy. I want to be excepting and supportive of her sexuality (although I am aware this could be just a phase) but i'm stressed about lots of other things right now, like money and housing. so rather selfishly I feel a bit like its come at a bad time and I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed, so I'm letting of steam here so I don't say the wrong thing to her.
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my daughter and her new friend might be more than friends
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karaline · 30/01/2016 23:36
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