DS is 12 and his best friend is 14. The friend recently came out as gay. They're very close friends, text each other a lot and spend a lot of time together. DS had a bit of a rough time this weekend (personal) and so asked if this friend could stay over. We said yes, he's stayed over before, no problem, only this time after he stayed over, the guest bed (matress on the floor) wasn't down and there was no sign that it had been, no extra bedding out or anything, so they must have stayed in the same bed.
Is this something I should be concerned about? I don't imagine my 12yo would be doing anything too 'grown up' but if there's a chance they're more than friends then I'm wondering if I need to start enforcing a 'doors open' rule or something?
He's my eldest child so have no previous experience in this sort of thing! just to clarify, I have no issue if he is gay, I just want him to be safe and happy but I'm pretty sure he knows that.
Any advice?
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Gay friend sleeping over in same bed..?
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nothinglikeit · 08/04/2015 00:01
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