Hello, im not a mum but had this website and netmums recommended to me by my friends mum. I came out to my mum and dad at the end if the summer holidays and they've refused to accept it. They won't even speak about it and they're hardly talking to me.
I'm not allowed on Facebook etc and my internet is monitored. The only chance I getis here at my friends house.
I just really want to talk to someone who knows what I'm going through or if anyone has any advice on how to deal with my parents?
Thanks so much
Today 15:00 secretsquirrels
oliver16 I am so sorry that your parents haven't reacted well to you coming out. Do you have an aunt or other relative you could talk to? I guess you have talked to the friend's mum who recommended this site . Might she talk to your parents?
Today 15:02 Madcatgirl
Have you tried someone like stonewall? They will probably be able to if not help,you point you in the direction of appropriate counselling.
You were brave to come out and your mum and dad will just have to accept it. You are who you are and ignoring only hurts you for which I'm sorry for you.
I hope they learn to accept you and move on with your lives.
Good luck
Today 15:55 oliver16
Thank you both so much for replying I have sent an email to stone wall! I don't think I need councelling though? I really wanted to know if there are any mums on here who might be able to help me with my parents? I have no idea what to say or do! They barely acknowledge me!? Is there anyone on here I could speak to? I feel so trapped because I'm reliant on my mum to drive me anywhere. I don't think I've ever met another gay person I my life!!!
Today 15:56 oliver16
Oh I forgot there isn't anyone apart from my friend I can speak to. Her mum is scared of my mum, I think everyone is!!!
Today 15:59 Madcatgirl
Sorry I meant for you parents, not you.
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Today 16:02 Madcatgirl
There is actually a board on here for Parents of LGBT children and LGBT parents too, ask on there and I know you'll get someone to talk to there.
Today 16:07 oliver16
Thank you! Ill have a look! Haha my.parents definitely need counselling! Thank you so much
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oliver16 · 05/11/2014 16:09
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