Me and my ex have split up 7 years ago . Our split was less than amicable and we are back and forward to court constantly. My ex uses my ds as a pawn and everytime custody arangements are made tries to push for more and more access. My ds does not want to go to his fathers house but I try and encourage contact where possible. Ds1 has just returned from a week at his fathers house. When he returned my ds told me he had been asking to come home for four days but his father would not let him. My son has now told me that when he asked to come home his father tried bribing him with various things. One of his bribes was to see his cousins. whose aunt (my sister) is prohibited by the courts from seeing my son due to various past issues. I was upset his father has let this happen already when last night my son said "All women apart from my fathers wife and Auntie want to sleep with black men." I don't know what to do as my husbands earnings are slightly too high for us to be eligible for legal aid and the legal advice centre near our house has said they can not help me because my ex has already received help and it would be a conflict of interest. What can I do?
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