Hi, I was wondering if someone could give me some advice? My children have no contact with their father (for 9 months now) by his agreement. He was violent towards our son and myself, DS now refuses to see him and is in counselling as a result of the anxiety his father caused him. His school is aware of the history as DS reported some of the abuse to his previous headmaster. I have discussed with them this and I was assured that he would never receive any other information than his reports. Previously my ex-h refused to attend school events and had nothing to do with it. DS is at an independent school & I pay the fees (my ex-h pays me £4.50 a week child support). School contacted me too this week to say he has requested school reports from them (my lawyer was in process of sending them). They have also given him access to a parent website which gives DS's timetable with teacher names. He will receive letters regarding trips, after school clubs, see my information etc. Is ex-h entitled to this information? He is unwilling to pay for their care (self-employed so has kept his profits low etc to avoid paying). My concern is that DS (he is 8) has finally felt safe at school and this past few months felt secure enough to start improving in school work & actually attend extra curricular clubs. He is still v scared but school is like a refuge for him. His dad never let him do outside activities (didn't like spending £). What if he denies permission for activities? DS overheard me on phone so now knows & is really upset his Dad can track his movements. Can I legally ask school to withdraw his access to website? It is stressing me out too as I finally felt I was out of control but he now knows everything going on & see daily updates on children's activities/photos.
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Lullabullacoo · 03/07/2016 17:42
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