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Child contact and threats help please.

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Hunterflower7 · 27/05/2016 11:00

I am writing to you as I desperately need some advice on a current situation that is emotionally draining me of energy.
I am 20 weeks pregnant with my second child, and my partner (my first child has a different father), has recently left me for another woman. I worry that as I feel emotionally unstable due to this that my thoughts are not rational, which is why I am seeking advice.
The father seems to be confused on what he wants, saying he would prefer me to abort the child, but then will say he will support it as much as he can. I have cut contact for now whilst everything becomes clearer in my head.
My issue is; he last week sent me a text message stating that, in his words- ' I will take my little girl away from you, and never see you again, if you let me see her, so on your head be it.'
This is obviously a huge worry for me, I have saved the text message- which displays his phone number on it, in case this could be an issue for when it comes to child contact. I am scared for our future anyway- but especially with these threats.
Any advice would be greatly received.

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Hunterflower7 · 28/05/2016 19:11

Bumping in the hope of answers :(

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SlapACatFuckADuck · 28/05/2016 19:20

You can't do much now until the baby is born as soon as it is seek legal advice. I would only offer supervised contact with people you trust or tell him to pay for a contact centre

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Hunterflower7 · 29/05/2016 09:46

Just as I thought, thank you for your reply

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