I left my ex seven years ago due to DV, particularly because of the control and bullying. Our DD (who is with me 80% of the time) is now 11 and I regularly take her on holiday to places like France, Spain, Turkey.
When we separated, we both signed a legal agreement outlining things like contact, maintenance, selling our house. It included a clause that we would let the other know when we were taking DD out of the country. He didn't keep to the agreement around things such as maintenance and selling the house, and has previously said he no longer considers it binding.
By and large, I have told him when we go abroad, but I'll admit I have left it late on occasion and once forgot to tell him when we visited France for a few days.
Last month I received a letter from his solicitor saying I had a duty to tell him dates and destinations, and suggesting we sign a parenting contract. I wrote back apologising that I hadn't always told him and that I would do so in future. However, I didn't feel it was necessary to sign a contract. In that letter, I included dates and destinations for our two holidays this year.
He wrote back (not his solicitor) saying his solicitor has advised him that I am obliged to tell him my itinerary, as well as hotel and flight details. Do I have to do this?
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Ex wants holiday hotel and flight details
QueenofWhatever · 08/02/2016 14:35
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