Hello
My DH and I got married last year and have two DC both under 5. After DC1 was born my then DP and I made a will but lots has changed since then, DC2 came along, we got married & we bought a house, plus not as close to DM now.
So, we need to make a new will. I assume it will be a mirror will, so if I die first, house goes to DH and he will carry on caring for the children and vice versa.
However, it's the scenario of us both dying at once ( say in a plane crash) that is troubling me and the DC's are left orphaned whilst under 18. It's really worrying me. So, we have a house, plus pensions and a small savings pot. Children can't inherit house or money themselves can they until they reach 18? so what happens to the house & money? Who will be in control of it and keep it safe for the DC's?
Biggest concern of all, who will care for DC's if we both die? I don't speak to my father and I'm not very close to DM any more. My MIl passed away years ago and my wonderful FIL is in poor health. We both have brothers who are kind people but not really up to caring for two DC's. What do people do in this situation?
Is there anything else I need to consider before we visit solicitor? Grateful for any advice, thank you.
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BetteDavis01 · 07/10/2015 10:32
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