My ex was paying sporadic maintenece for our children, I didn't go to CMO because he said he would quit his job and I'd get nothing.
The last 5 months he has paid regularly and what I worked out to be the correct amount.
He has now moved in with his girlfriend and her two children, she works and gets maintenence for her kids, they have now bumped her hours up, my ex s hours down and he does the childcare for her.
Due to this he has decided to reduce the pittance I get (I believe this is why it was done)
He doesn't see our dc often, maybe once in 6 months. He doesn't call or visit at all.
The problem I have is one of my dc has regular medical appointments quite far from us. With train fares and childcare for our other dc these 4-6 weekly appointments take up most if what my ex pays me.
I have no idea what I am going to do to enable my child to attend if he cuts my money.
Is there any way I can get him to contribute half the costs or anything at all over and above the legal minimum he has to pay? I'm at my wits end with it all.
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Is there any way to get extra money from my dcs dad? (I'm in Scotland he is in england)
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Whatthefuckhaveidone · 23/06/2015 15:03
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