DH has been NC with his father for 10 years+. TBH we assumed he'd been written out of any will years ago and don't want/expect anything.
However, we have received a letter advising that DH is in the will, on the condition that he attends the funeral and that I am not to go with him.
This is typical of the kind of behaviour that lead to the NC in the first place and has upset DH a lot. He feels that he might want to go to the funeral "to make sure he's gone" but that to attend now will look like he's only gone for the money. He also feels he would like me there for support (which would apparently solve the just there for the money thing) but that it would look bad in the eyes of the other relatives (who I'm sure will have heard a very one sided version of events) if I go, against the express wishes of the deceased.
FIL hasn't died BTW, but it is apparently imminent. DH hasn't been asked to visit and doesn't want to.
There's a whole load of emotional stuff to work through, but I suppose my question FTB is are these kind of conditions in wills legal, enforceable, or commonplace?
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Another will one, I'm sorry
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MinimumPayment · 30/05/2015 18:44
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