My mum died back in September. My sister and I haven't had much today with my mum for a long while - she was an alcoholic and would say and do awful things - my brother being the youngest growing up was protected from a lot of it. When we were both at school the school accepted notes etc from me as they were aware of the situation at home. I used to do all shopping cleaning cooking etc as my mum was either too drunk or away getting drunk somewhere else.
Anyway she told my brother she had made a will and left all her things to him..........this was another lie. She made no will - we checked the whole house, with all solicitors in town everywhere and no will. She had brain damage from the alcohol - told me she worked for mi6 so made a lot of things up
So probate was applied for and granted to my dad (my mums ex) but my brother still thinks he should have everything. He has already pocketed her entire pension. He's started sending me horrible messages etc as I've said I'm not willing to let him have the house but he keeps on and on and on about I've no right to anything as he did everything for her etc. I've blocked him so he can't message me and I'm considering getting a solicitor to deal with it all for me but I don't know if I can afford it and I know my dad feels stuck in the middle and he will be hurt. Has anyone any advice about what I should do????
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Blushingm · 10/04/2015 17:30
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