Hi there
I am self representing, husband fled to UK leaving me behind in another EU country with 4 kids. I have a maintenance order from the EU country he refuses to comply with and pays 1/3 of the order and has spent last year failing through many appeals to annul the order. He now owes over 30k.
First problem, is that our jointly owned house was rented. He threw the lovely tenant out, without my consent, I couldn't stop, she had months of harassment and decided that was it, she couldn't cope with him any more. After 4 months a vandalism, my husband finally agreed to hand over keys. I asked court to force him, they never answered, despite paying £150 on a D11 to rule and give back keys. In that house are essential documents which prove my life savings. I need them for any court hearing. I am coming to the UK next week to finally get them.
Second problem is that my husband, the petitioner in financial remedy, has failed to follow a single court order. 1 month late and 1/3 answered questionnaire. 2 months late narrative. 6 months late financial disclosure.
Third problem is my husband cleared out the bank accounts, spent 100k, 32k was the children's money. It has meant me unable to get any legal aid, any free legal help, have had to take a bank loan and still not sure if barrister under direct access will represent me.
Fourth problem is the court itself who do not read or reply to correspondence. 4 weeks ago came a court order for a Pre Trial Review. To sort out issues such as ownership of the children's bank accounts - my husband wants them included as family assets and the percentage divided between us with these assets, but refuse to accept these children's bank accounts as his part, of course not, they are in the childdren's names till adulthood and no guarantee the children will hand over their money. OTher issues like receiving financial disclosure only 2 weeks ago. Other issues like I don't have confirmed legal representation. Other issues like my husband is refusing to pay maintenance and owes so much.
Today a bombshell. The other district judge contradicted the one who ordered the Pre Trial Review and say in 5 days time there will be a final hearing.
- there is no agreed court bundle
- there has never been a hearing for dispute resolution, only a single first hearing
- I have no confirmed legal rep, he has direct access barrister
- so many issues the other judge recognized needed settling, most important of which is children's savings and court bundles, before there can be a final hearing
Help me please
I have spent weeks trying to phone Rights of Women etc, my MP in the UK etc, trying every source of legal help over the past 18 months.
I am facing a final hearing with ZERO.
My other problem is that my husband has a list of 20 items such as payslips, bank statements, credit card statements, all missing from his financial disclosure. He has succeeded in going from initial hearing to final hearing with nothing in between. But he will not finish his financial disclosure, I've waited 6 months for the missing items and got an adjournment (I had to pay for) due to lack of these items.