Currently my son and stepdaughter are residing with me due to mum having a 'breakdown'. Ill say breakdown in the loosest of terms as I believe her problems are more deep rooted. They have been living with me for nearly 4 months now but in reality at least 8 months at least one child has been residing with me at any one time. Mum in the mean time has had a new partner and their relationship has fallen apart. She has had various lodgers some with and some without a child staying. Her children have stayed over less than 10 times since april. Mum may have bipolar but is apparently waiting on a psychiatric referral however I am unsure as to whether she has had said referral and not bothered with it as this was supposed to been referred 2 or 3 months ago. I have tried to get social services involved as I have concerns if/when they go to live with her but as were still married here is not an awful lot they can do apart from suggest from me to go for residency and a prohibitve steps order to peevent her from taking the children. Mums state of mind at the moment would not be great and she has mentioned about moving away then the next minute asked about moving back in with me which I said no to as I do not believe she is able enough to look after the children for the 10 hours I am out working. I have serious concerns about her stability at the moment a friend of hers has expressed concerns that she is scared she might find her dead. I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place at the moment and have no idea what to do for the best for all parties. Social services have said I need to put the children first but if I file for residency thrn this may tip her further over the edge. Help me please
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andy1978uk · 08/08/2014 12:08
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