Posted in chat - then found this subject so it's a double posting (sorry)
My Sister cheated on her (then boyfriend now) husband. Shortly after the incident she found out she was pregnant and quite honestly the BF could be either one. Husband knows the situation and for 4 years has raised their DS as his own.
Recently the man who she cheated with has been approved for legal aid for "paternity and declaration of parentage". So far my Sister has spoken to his solicitor and said that as far as she is aware her husband is her childs father and submitted BC, MC and I think proof of their relationship going back to before the ONS.
I have suggested them doing a DNA test privately as it could put a stop to this whole thing but they are both refusing and 100% will not budge on this. I have also told her to get legal advice but she hasn't. I honestly think she is burying her head in the sand.
From my sisters point of view, she doesn't want this man involved with her child, she doesn't think that any court would order a DNA test when she is married and her husband's name is on the BC, if a court did order a DNA she doesn't think that it could be forced that she remove her husbands name from the BC, and doesn't think any court would split PR three ways?
As you can see from the above paragraph her mentality at the moment is pretty much denial and I don't think it is doing anyone any good not having a least a few solid facts about what might happen going forward.
Can anyone give me some information or help? I know there will be a lot of get a solicitor/legal advice and trust me I'm keeping on at her with that but in the meantime any advice would be great.
Thanks in advance.
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TinkerBellsFairyDust · 13/04/2014 12:42
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