After information please

[mumof289]

So last week I got a non mol order on the babies father, he isn't allowed near my property, my parents or my sisters. Not allowed with In 100m of me, him or any 3rd party are not allowed to directly or indirectly contact me or use any threatening, intimidating, violent behaviour towards me. Automatic imprisonment if he breaches. The injunction is 6 months long.

The relationship broke down since September, since then there have been 2 assaults, lots of threats up until April. And not has contact off him since then. He has also tried to kill himself twice between the 2 assaults on me. I got the injunction for mine and my babies protection. I stopped him having contact with the children in April after the second time he was violent with me. Both times have been infront or while I've had hold of one of the babies.

He has said ALOT about waiting on a date for court over could contact.. I have no idea whether he is going for shared residency, normal contact or whatever you can apply for.

I have all the evidence I need as social services, health visitor, everything was reported to the police (violence and threats) and a core assessment proven for him to have an "uncontrollable temper" - this also helped in my case for the non mol order.

I'm just wondering with all this that I have.. What
Type of contact he may be granted?

The social worker wants me to get a prohibited steps order as he has threatened to remove the children from the uk before. However, my solicitor said that its leaving open the child contact to him then so we should wait until he leaved an application for court over the children. I understand that the court wishes for the children to have relationships with both parents, if I had it my way he's be out of our lives for good. Even when we were together he never contributed to the children's care as I had to do everything. It's been almost 4 months now and he hasn't made anything for child contact and I would have been adviced so the way I see it he is telling everyone he is waiting for a date to rally people round him to make him feel good about himself. He doesn't care about the babies he never has, it's all image for
Him. And the fact he was violent infront of my 2 girls well.... That says it at all for me.

Anyone had this before? What type of contact he may get? What I should apply for when he does? My solicitor says its a waiting game. But Id just like an idea so I know what choices i go down.

He hasn't made direct contact with me but made indirect threats via social networking through his family and sometimes by himself. But heard nothing from himself since April. My 2 girls are 18 months and 6 months old.

Also... Today, just found out his girlfriend of 6 months is pregnant. I'm not jealous, I feel horrible on my two

Thanks for your info!

[Collaborate]

He's having no contact at present, so that's good.

if he applies to court for contact there would need to be a risk assessment. The court would expect him to attend a perpetrators course to understand the effect of DV.

There may need to be medical records disclosed too.

He won't get legal aid to apply, so that might be stopping him.

If he does get contact it would certainly be supervised at first, and handovers would have to be arranged so that you never get to meet him. But that is way down the line. He needs to apply first.