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Bad Mckenzie Friend!

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brokemybank Fri 31-May-13 15:18:51

Hi all,

I'm new here and was after some advice.

My ex has custody of our daughter (aged 12) who would now like to live with me. I asked a Mckenzie friend for help, he said it would be no problem, i just needed to pay him for filing the papers with the courts and for his time to fill them in. i paid him the money and waited for a week. Nothing. I called him and he said a hearing was taking place the following week that i didn't need to attend and that my ex had been served with the papers. I know my ex and if he had the papers, there is no way he wouldn't say anything to me, i heard nothing from him. The MF said he was likely staying quiet because he was going to contest it but he'd send me a report of the 'serving of papers' again, i had nothing. after the first hearing had happened, i asked if there was an outcome, the MF said yes, there is a hearing i need to attend in 3 weeks, i said ok, can i have the papers to confirm when and where it is for my own peace of mind. He agreed to send them on 3 different occasions, nothing ever arrived. I then called the local family court to see what was happening, they hadn't heard of me or the case. I told MF this and he agreed to meet up with me the following day, he didn't show up at 2 different arranged times. i asked for my money back which he agreed to, but again nothing happened! i threatened to call the police, he said he was transferring the money back to me and sending my papers, to date i've had nothing, i don't know what to do and need some help from someone, i doubt very much the police can do anything, i can provide details of this person to stop anyone else being duped by him but right now, my concern is my daughter and getting my money back so i can proceed with the court case myself. Any advice is gratefully appreciated.

AnnoiniMoose Mon 16-Feb-15 23:56:41

Pre-trial formalities against MW began with pleas today.

m8412 Mon 16-Feb-15 11:26:09

Hello, have you reported this to trading standards? I advise that you do asap, there number is 03454 04 05 06

lostdad Mon 26-Jan-15 12:59:08

Solicitors and barristers are only human. You get good and bad, assidious and lazy, etc. like you get everywhere else.

If I had to guess why bundles or not produced - or exclude items - I would say that in most cases it is a case of laziness rather than malice or dishonesty.

It's common for solicitors to meet the same people over and over again, with most of the legwork done before a hearing. If you are a solicitor and know the other party's one chances are you know how they work, can agree things and I suspect a lot of the paperwork seems superfluous as there are unlikely to be many surprises. In the same way it's common for a litigant in person to be faced with a bundle if the other party IS represented - the solicitor working on the principle that the LiP knows nothing about the process.

Many of the people I assist tend to be shocked that I can often get their cases moving forward quickly for the aboves reasons. A solicitor is often happy to `go with the flow' and won't make waves because it's a career for them...would you want to risk incurring the professonal wrath of a judge seeing on a regular basis? Or just play your part? For LiPs it's more a case of being told that `nothing can be done' and accepting that because they don't know otherwise. Frequently people say `I wish I'd found you sooner' or `There has been more progress in the last month than there was in the whole of last year'.

FlowerFairy2014 Fri 23-Jan-15 13:39:16

Bundles point above is interesting. I have never had a case where anyone has ever left things out of bundles but I have only done cases where both sides have solicitors and in commercial law so it sounds like another world in the family courts with unrepresented people and people not being strictly above board. Where did honesty go amongst everyone? You would have thought as a matter of personal moral code litigants in person as much as solicitors would play by the book.

FlowerFairy2014 Fri 23-Jan-15 13:38:05

yes do check people out. I saw just today someone pretended to be a solicitor, was even on the Law Society find a solicitor website and the victim's solicitor is suing the Law Society for allowing someone who is not a solicitor to appear as one on their website. If you use a real solicitor then even if the solicitor goes bankrupt or runs abroad with your money the whole legal profession picks up the tab which is why for those who can afford us we are a fairly safe bet.

vanillalate Thu 22-Jan-15 13:07:13

Omg! I was just get in touch with him, and was on the phone yesterday! And he said that he will send me a link so I can transfer the money to him!

brokemybank Sat 30-Aug-14 15:05:48

Hi all, just a quick update for you, i never got my money back from the scammer, i refuse to call him a mckenzie friend as i feel this would be an insult to to genuine mckenzie friends out there who help people! I have been keeping my eye on him and can see that he is now conning people out of money for kids parties. The fact that he was arrested last year has not deterred him one bit. I know certain agencies are underfunded and maybe understaffed but when will this end? Will he ever be punished for causing so much misery?

lostdad Wed 09-Jul-14 11:21:42

Jane Parker - I'll give you a concrete example. Of all the final hearings I have ever been involved I have only been involved in one that didn't involve the other party acting to frustrate bundle preparation in some shape or form.

Amongst other things this has included refusing to prepare one, excluding all the evidence of the other party, excluding parts of the evidence of the other party, ignoring deadlines, producing documents to suggest the litigant in person is at fault, ignoring the LIP completely and submitting bundles to the court. And much more.

Truth be told I expect this so I tend to advise my clients not to focus on this sort of thing. It makes no difference if the above is undertaken as a result of malice, incompetence or a combination of both because you're there to argue the case of the best interests of the child and not the motivations of a `professional' who has ignored Practice Direction, SRA guidelines, Resolution guidelines, etc.

As such as a matter of course I assist my clients to produce their own bundles. It's the only way to guarantee they will have evidence in chief to support their argument. Yes, the risk is that the court will be distinctly unamused by having to juggle two bundles but in my experience the risk that failing to do so and turning up for a contested hearing with nothing to support your arguments is far greater.

I have met a great many solicitors and barristers I have the utmost respect for - good, intelligent and incisive people who have clearly done the best for their clients. I've also met others who I would describe in a somewhat different manner.

I would like to think that my conduct in court is borne out by the the reception I have received in my work. I have been commended by the court, narrowed issues with the other party' representation to the point of being able to avoid contested hearings, drafted orders at the court's request and had rights of audience in courts at various levels.

As for using McKenzie Friends - as I have said before, if they are regulated to the same standard lawyers are I'd have little faith in any such scheme. Whether you are using a solicitor, barrister or McKenzie Friend any client should be ready to ask for references, a CV and ask about their background before engaging their services.

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RichardLM Mon 23-Jun-14 16:53:30

This looks like a straightforward theft/fraud which the police should be interested in. If the person had drafted and lodged court documents it is very likely to be an offence under the Legal Services Act (s14, as they would be providing litigation services which is a reserved service and so cannot be provided by a McKenzie Friend or an impersonator of McK friends.

I would also advise writing to the SRA, LeO (the Legal Services Ombudsman) and the Legal Services Consumer Panel with the website address if the site is still up. They may or may not be able to help, but they should be made aware of this as an example of a problem.

Heebiejeebie Thu 12-Jun-14 21:51:37

If MFs were regulated then there would be a formal approved list. And a fraudster, not appearing on the list, could be rapidly identified by a potential client. If someone tells me they are a doctor, I can check the GMC website. If someone tells me they are a MF I have to take their word for it.

JaneParker Sun 08-Jun-14 11:08:31

Wow, lostdad saying 50% of solicitors and barrister break their own rules! That's quite a claim. Why risk a decades long career and years of hard study to pass exams to get struck off? It just does not really make sense that half of all lawyers would risk that. I don't think I've ever broken a professional rule.

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Spero Thu 24-Apr-14 08:17:43

lostdad - I think it is essential to improve relationships between MF and lawyers because I am already seeing the knock on effect of the legal aid cuts and the enormous difficulties of trying to work with litigants in person who, unsurprisingly are initially very suspicious of me as an agent for the other side.

I was told yesterday to stop writing in my my notebook by a LIP because I was trying to 'slaughter' her in court. I had to point out that I was trying to do everyone a favour by making sure I had an accurate note of what we were saying. It would have been so much easier to have been having this discussion with an MF who - hopefully- would have understood why I needed to write things down and there was nothing suspicious about it.

I am very angry that this Government has simply cut off funding avenues for people to get legal help with apparently no thought whatsoever about what is available to fill the gaps. There is a real risk the unscrupulous or the well meaning but misguided will rush to fill those gaps.

I wrote an article yesterday about an adoption case where it took arguments from two QCs in front of the Court of Appeal before the correct procedural route for an application was identified. If we are going to reduce people's access to legal help, we have to ensure laws are understandable...

Icimoi Thu 24-Apr-14 06:28:41

I don't think it's correct to say that the Law Society or BSB could have ensured that this MF was prosecuted. They have power to deal with people who pretend to be solicitors or barristers, but none in relation to MF. This is where an MF regulatory body would be helpful, because it could act in the same way. Just as the Law Society can take action against someone who pretends to be a solicitor, so an MF regulator could take action against someone pretending to be an MF. Without a regulator, there's nothing to stop this sort of person setting up.

lostdad Wed 23-Apr-14 23:56:11

It's very interesting Spero. I was contacted by the Legal Services Consumer Panel for the study that it mentions and I know several others who were too.

I have had a great deal of conversation with solicitors and barristers whilst at court as well as court officials and there is generally a positive reaction. Most of the solicitors and barristers I have worked with have been professional and courteous and happy to work with me to come to orders by consent and for me to prepare draft orders to be put before the court.

During my conversations bad McKenzie Friends have come up - like the ones described in that link. I've picked up the pieces from clients who have dealt with them too. I provide a CV and a McKenzie letter that confirms I understand what I can and can't do and that is made clear to my clients before they become my clients.

I fully understand that a McKenzie Friend is not an equivalent to a solicitor or barrister although they can perform many of the similar functions. I think McKenzie Friends do have a role to play and do my best to help.

Spero Wed 23-Apr-14 22:08:01
lostdad Tue 22-Apr-14 14:31:02

JD2510 `But the SRA or BSB could of and still could if they want to - Ensure this Conman is 'prosecuted' under the Legal Services Act - But they do nothing it seems.'

While ostensibly regulation of legal professionals by membership is a good thing it's important to realise that's it's a figleaf - by and large not worth the ink used to print the reassuring logo at the top of the letterhead. Complain to the SRA and you'll quickly realise it is pointless - you typically won't be informed of progress, the decision or the reasoning behind it.

Membership of Resolution is also problematic: In it's existence over the last 30 years zero members have been punished for ignoring the main tenet of membership: A `non-confrontational approach to family law matters'.

All of the solicitors I deal with in my capacity as a McKenzie Friend are a member of Resolution and the SRA - I would estimate that at least 50% of them break the conditions of membership of both. I have had first hand experience of this.

Complaining to the court is also meant to be a way of dealing with this too incidentally - when inconvertible proof of bullying, lying, deliberately misleading litigants they have a duty of care, attempting to exclude evidence being just a few examples - the worst I have seen a legal professional suffering is a mild verbal rebuke.

Don't get me wrong: I see bad McKenzie Friends - I've picked up the pieces from litigants in person who have suffered under them. But if the `regulation' that some are demanding of them is as rigorous as that of legal professionals it is a complete waste of time.

My advice? Shop around and ask for references for ANYONE you are entrusting your children to. Solicitors, barristers, McKenzie Friends, whatever. I provide references on demand for my clients, provide a contract which protects my clients and me and I work to a code of contact for the organisation I work with.

It's not rocket science.

munkysea Mon 21-Apr-14 16:34:23

Nomoretether, you make a good point and I hadn't thought of it like that. It's likely that this would still be a case of Trading Standards, sadly.

JD2510 Mon 21-Apr-14 16:29:14

nomoretether - Exactly.

nomoretether Mon 21-Apr-14 16:26:27

Obviously he wouldn't be able to register as MF of that became a protected term, but what would stop him setting up his own website and calling himself that anyway?

JD2510 Mon 21-Apr-14 16:24:56

But the SRA or BSB could of and still could if they want to - Ensure this Conman is 'prosecuted' under the Legal Services Act - But they do nothing it seems.

Not interested in 'regulation' it is of zero practical use, 'prosecution' is what is needed, led/started by the SRA and BSB.

If someone puts up a website and says they are builders, but only takes your money and never builds anything for numerous people - S/he is not a builder but a Conman/Fraudster.

He clearly was not a Mckenzie Friend because he was advertising and performing tasks McKenzie Friends cannot do. He was a Conman and a Fraudster.

He was doing Solicitor tasks, illegally. But no Solicitor or Barrister seems to want to report him and follow up with the SRA in ensuring the Police are going to prosecute him under the Legal Services Act as well as by the OFT.

It is a bit sad that the lawyers on here are so keen to have a go at MF's, they jump on the bandwagon with spurious claims. Shows how desperate they are, perhaps.

nomoretether Mon 21-Apr-14 16:23:47

How would regulation have prevented the situation in the OP? Surely even with regulation, Joe Bloggs could set up a website calling himself a "McKenzie Friend" and taken people's money so the consequences would have been the same? Would this MF regulatory authority cover people posing as MFs?

If someone set themselves up as a "solicitor" on their own (dodgy) website but wasn't a solicitor, would the SRA get involved in that? Or would it be referred to the police/Trading Standards which is what has happened in this case anyway because this man isn't a MF, that's just what he's decided to call himself.

munkysea Mon 21-Apr-14 16:08:29

JD2510, I'm not sure you fully understand the remit of the SRA or the BSB. The SRA regulates individuals who are:
a solicitor;
a registered European lawyer;
a registered foreign lawyer;
an authorised body;
a recognised sole practitioner;
a lawyer or non-lawyer who is a manager or employee of an authorised body; or
an owner of an authorised body (this is taken from the SRA's website). I'm sure one of the barristers on this board will step in to explain the BSB's remit .

So, the SRA cannot regulate an individual like the one referred to in this thread if he does not fall into one or more of the above categories. (It appears that he does not, but I have not seen evidence either way). If it did it would be stepping outside the SRA's remit. The SRA's remit for regulation is not 'everyone doing something vaguely related to the law'. If it were, it WOULD be able to regulate this individual (and all MFs, but that's beside the point). This is not, of itself, a failing of the SRA. It's a strawman argument to complain that the SRA is not doing something that is outside of its remit.

I'm not sure what your point about whether or not the individual about which the OP's post kicked off this particular bunfight is. The OP clearly believed he was a MFm whether or not he claimed to be one to the OP. MF is not a protected term, so arguing that this individual is not a MF is pointless, because anyone doing anything can call themselves a MF, regardless of whether they are doing something that MFs commonly do or not. This issue has arisen because MFs are not regulated. Not by the SRA, not be the BSB, and not by another MF-specific regulatory body.

JD2510 Mon 21-Apr-14 15:45:06

P.S. It's also a shame that some of the so-called experts on here jumped on the bandwagon immediately, saying that this Conman was a McKenzie Friend, when he clearly was NOT according to the original post.

The original poster was hit in a scam and she has my deepest sympathy but it has nothing at all to do with McKenzie Friends, as the Conman could have done exactly the same calling himself a Solicitor or Barrister.

The Conman was offering and performing reserved activities which a McKenzie Friend or Barrister cannot do, only Solicitors. But again where was the SRA or the BSB?

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