Hi, I wonder if anyone on here can please help me? I'm at my wits end and today I have just broken, I can't stop crying!
I currently have an arrangement where my ex-partner has our 11 month old daughter every other weekend and I sometimes let him have her during the week as well. We agreed that he could have her, if he agreed that he would communicate with me whilst she's in her care if she was ill etc, but if not, just one phone call in the evening when she's gone to bed to let me know how she is. He started doing this really well, but in recent weeks has stopped doing it and when I call him I get shouted down and called all the names under the sun.
I just feel that he has no right to talk to me like that and I don't want to have anything to do with him until we can agree a preferred method of communication moving forwards.
So, I have two questions:
- Am I within my rights to stop access until we have reached an agreement, in order to protect myself?
- Is it possible to get a legal document drawn up that outlines a kind of 'code of conduct' between one another? If so, can anyone recommend anyone good that does this?
Thank you so much in advance, I really appreciate anyone's advice, or even just to hear from someone that has been in a similar situation and to hear it works out in the end. I feel exhausted of putting all the effort and work in and getting nothing back apart from vulgar language and behaviour.
Thanks