Background: Been with DH since 1999, married since 2007. 2 children now 4 and 3.
Dh has always been a bit controlling - monitors emails, PC usage, texts etc., Has frequently had problems with what I've written here / elsewhere, what I say to friends. Several times, he has made me cut contact with friends and he also made me rehome our dog because he no longer liked the mess.
Yesterday, he accused me of having an affair with a chap who has been working in our house. He called the chaps up and had it 'clarified' that nothing was happening (my word wasn't good enough). He went really quite mental, so much so that I moved both children into one bed and slept with them.
Now he has 'clarification' that nothing is / was / would ever go on, he's calmed down completely and thinks I should 'get over it'.
If we split, what could I expect? My DS (4) has SN so I would want the house + child support and some maintenence. Is that unreasonable?
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onceortwice · 05/10/2012 09:21
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