My DW & I are seperated, her decision, her affair.
I live overseas. A verbal agreement was to pay 50% of the mortgage and pet insurance only. Never formalised but I've maintained it.
She was signed off poor health and now lives on benefits. This pays towards the mortgage. I, however, pay a lot more than 50% to make up the difference.
Ongoing for 16months, prior to that she has not paid a bill to the joint acc for over 3yrs.
She now has a new b/f living with her, which I believe is contrary to her benefits T&Cs. To assist her I've paid household bills in addition to the mortgage, but have only started to cut back on the house hold bills since finding out her b/f has moved in during Aug..
No information regarding our pets, last correspondence was 1st week in Aug. this year and this was about her health. Benefits are still being paid for the mortgage.
Need realistic expectations of how to end this, what I can ask for in the seperation. Don't want to be paying for 70% of a house I don't live in. Am I being harsh ceasing all the household payments now b/f lives there. I have always kept her uptodate and advised her of my actions, no reply.
What are my legal obligations now?
Opinions matter, advice is requested though.
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cjgraham35 · 22/09/2012 02:15
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