I've been reading the forum and relieved to find so many helpful people with experience in these things.
I finally got out of DV relationship last year. Ex applied for contact with our 2 year old although he was never involved or interested before. He knows I have had help for depression in the past and always told me if I left him he would get custody for mental health reasons. He has been attacking on that basis ever since his application.
There's no evidence that it is an issue atall and I've been open about my past. But the court and now cafcass are ignoring all dv allegations by me and keep bringing up ex's mental health allegations.
Now psychiatric assessments of us both have been ordered.
This worries me because ex has managed to fool everyone with his pretence. He tells them all how reasonable he has been and paints a picture of a knight in shining armor. And invents stories about me making me sound nuts. Nothing has been investigated but every statement by him is pages long with more stories.
I'm worried that the court seems to be ready to believe the mental health issues and seems unable to see through ex's lies. What effect will a psych assessment have? Will it be able to see through ex or will it just reinforce ex's accusations about me?
Ex seems happy with this legal process, dropping 'hand grenades' from a distance and lying, the whole thing seems like a continuation of his dv towards me. If anyone has experience of this sort of thing I would appreciate and support or comments you can offer for dealing with it or what I might expect.
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Cafcass psychiatric assessment help please
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Magnac · 22/08/2012 11:24
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