Hi all,
Please could you give me some advice.
I'm 23 weeks pregnant and just split up with my abusive partner (the father).
He has said he wants nothing to do with either of us and wants no contact ever.
I have been recommended NOT to put his name on the birth certificate.
My question is: if I make a claim through the csa is he able to obtain access?
I really don't want my baby spending time with someone who has verbally, financially and physically abused me and his family are no better (his sister has threatened me twice).
I am happy for his mother to visit and spend time with her grandson but I know he will not allow this (he has told me he will tell her that she can't see him). To be honest, I don't think she will want to as he has told everyone I tricked him into pregnancy.
If someone could tell me if csa = contact I'd really appreciate it.
And even if I don't claim on the csa can he get access?
I'm not a bitch, he's just so awful and a terrible father (from what I've seen of how he treats his other two children and what he allows them to get up to).
Many thanks
C x
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datingthedevil · 20/08/2012 12:09
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